When you're done settling for what you've always known because it's "good enough"
I challenge you to claim your boldest and most audacious desires
To the outside world, maybe it looks like you're doing okay...
You're holding it together, doing what’s expected — maybe even achieving things others would call "good enough."
But deep down, you know you’re meant for more.
You’ve always felt it — even when people told you to "be more realistic" or "stop dreaming so big."
Even when they said you had your head in the clouds, you knew: that was your superpower. ☁️⚡
You’ve carried visions inside you that are bigger, bolder, and more breathtaking than the life you've been living.
Not because you’re ungrateful — but because your soul refuses to settle for a life that only scratches the surface of your potential.
Still... when the dreams start feeling too big, that familiar voice creeps in —
"Who are you to want so much?"
"How would you even make it happen?"
"Isn’t it safer to just be grateful for what you already have?"
And for a while, maybe you listened.
Maybe you stayed “realistic.” 😔
Maybe you tucked those bigger dreams away in a safer, quieter corner of your heart.
But the truth?
That fire inside you never died. 🔥
And you’re not here to play small.
You’re here to create the extraordinary.
You don’t need to fix yourself — you need to clear the energetic noise that's been holding you back.
You need to rewire the old patterns that made you doubt yourself.
You need to reconnect with the version of you who’s already living the life you dream about.
You were never asking for too much.
You were asking for the life you were born for.
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I'm a mirror for the dreamers who refuse to keep shrinking
I'm a guide for the women who outgrew the boxes they once squeezed themselves into.
The women who learned early to tame their fire, soften their edges, and be "good" — so they could belong, be loved, stay safe.
(You were never too much.
You were just taught to be less.)
I help women reprogram the subconscious stories that taught them to shrink, to doubt their magic, to settle for lives that fall short of the truth burning inside them.
Because the real dream?
It’s not about being better at fitting in.
It’s about becoming who you were always meant to be — before the world told you to play it small.
For over a decade, I’ve been immersed in the art of transformation — blending subconscious reprogramming, manifestation, identity work, and soul-deep embodiment.
I'm a Certified Transformational Life Coach, Hypnotherapist, and Pleasure Coach.
But beyond the certifications, my greatest wisdom comes from my own untaming — the slow, wild, breathtaking return to myself.
I know what it's like to dim your light because shining felt dangerous.
I know what it's like to silence your own dreams before anyone else could judge them.
You don’t have to live in that cage anymore.
I'm not here to hand you another checklist for building a life that looks good from the outside.
I'm here to help you call your "too much-ness" back out of hiding.
To help you trust your desires, rebuild your identity from the inside out, and manifest a life that feels unapologetically, exquisitely yours.
Because you were never asking for too much.
You were asking to be free.
Fun Stuff...
Go to drink: Coffee. Black. Starbucks Pike Place. For the past 20 years. Although lately I’ve been exploring alternatives and am LOVING Everyday Dose Bulletproof Coffee 😋
Personality type? I’m an Enneagram 7w8, Libra Sun, Gemini Moon, Virgo Rising, ENFJ, Manifesting Generator, ah and only a little bit obsessed with tools of self exploration 😜
Favorite hobby: Country swing dancing. I started learning in 2023, and I am officially in love 💃
Favorite quote: “I do not regret the things I have done, but those I did not do” credit - (maybe Mark Twain or unknown) but I first heard Lucas from Empire Records and it’s stuck with me ever since those angsty 90s teen days
Authentic code: (anyone know To Be Magnetic?)
Freedom: Ability to spend my time, money & energy in any way I desire and to feel ample space for enjoyment.
Beauty: Self-expression and aesthetic appreciation in all areas of life.
Intimacy: Depth of emotional and physical connection in all my relationships.
Expansion: Growing, learning, experiencing and being challenged.
My kids: I became a mom at the sweet, young age of 17, and now have a 23, 19, and 7 year old. My kiddos are my greatest purpose for healing and growing, and I trust that the more I overcome in this life, the more I pave the way for them to have less to make their children have to overcome 🥰
Manifesto for Living Audaciously
Because playing small was never your destiny.
I believe…
🦋 You can do all the "right things" — read the books, make the vision boards, say the affirmations — but if your energy is blocked (subconscious beliefs, unresolved fears, hidden patterns), the life you want will feel just out of reach until those inner barriers are cleared.
🦋 If you want to live a life that blows your own mind, you're going to have to get uncomfortable. You’re going to have to look at the parts of yourself your ego desperately wants you to ignore. Buckle up. It's going to be beautiful. 🔥
🦋 Everyone needs playful, creative pursuits that have nothing to do with being "productive" or "successful" — things that exist just because they make your soul come alive.
🦋 Learning to play and to pursue pleasure is one of the greatest sources of power, creativity, magnetism, and expansion you will ever find.
🦋 We all need mirrors — people, mentors, guides — who can help us see the blindspots we can't see on our own. Not because we’re broken, but because we’re human. Healing happens faster when we stop doing it alone.
I want to live in a world where…
🦋 We've shed the shame of wanting more — and the fear of being fully seen — so it feels safe, normal, and celebrated to live as the most fully expressed versions of ourselves.
🦋 "Realistic" is seen as a funny, outdated word — because we've all experienced the magic of creating something from nothing, and we know in our bones that if we can envision it, we can create it.
🦋 Our first instinct when pursuing new ideas is not to look outside ourselves for permission — but to turn inward, to ask our intuition: "Is this for me?"
🦋 The standard workweek is 20 hours or less, and we have plenty of space to nourish our bodies, deepen our relationships, nurture our dreams, and create from overflow rather than depletion.
🦋 Investing in joy — whether it's a beautiful blowout, fresh flowers, a spontaneous adventure, or an afternoon spent doing absolutely nothing — is seen as essential to our magnetic, creative power.
This is what I know to be true…
🦋 Our ego is clever and sneaky, and it will try to protect us from expansion at every level. But the more attuned we are to our truth, the faster we recognize when fear is dressing up as "logic."
🦋 When I surround myself with people who refuse to settle for the status quo, my old limitations dissolve like mist.
🦋 People talk about "embodying your highest self" as if she's someone you're still trying to catch up to. But here's the secret:
Your highest self is already inside you.
She’s not waiting for you to figure it all out — she's waiting for you to stop hiding.
🦋 One of the biggest blocks to living the life we dream about is the tension between wanting to be seen and fearing being seen. Both sides must be honored, explored, and gently released if we want to be free.
🦋 Whenever we find ourselves stuck, procrastinating, or self-sabotaging, the root is never laziness — it’s an unhealed belief about who we are. When we heal the root, the action flows naturally.
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